Pushing people away is the easiest thing to do
I find bliss in this way
I am not sorry for building this wall
I need my shelter
You have yours, so why would I destroy mine
It is not layers of secret that you need to peel off
The wall just there without any beginning
I need to be in my tower
I am not waiting because life flows
If it scares you then I have my climbing rose for you to see
You can touch the flowers, but beware of the thorns
Their poisonless but hurt so bad
The fume burns your lungs
The leaves are black and dry
Leave it this way
Me and my brick tower
High walls you do not climb
It is only a ‘me’ in here
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Saat ini hujan mengguyur bumi. Menyisakan aroma tanah saat matahari menyembul lagi. Satu wajah tetap ada dalam benakku. Datang tanpa diperintah, mengundang tanya, harap, dan bahagia. Rindu.
Merajut hari tanpa wujudmu yang bisa kusentuh tidak membuatku tenggelam. Keinginan itu selalu ada, tanpamu jantungku berdetak dalam ritme yang teratur. Sesal.
Aku melukis wajahmu di halaman khusus buku harianku. Menemani sketsa itu dengan ribuan kata cinta yang kosong. Sekedar melepaskan perasaan yang sudah kau tahu. Cinta.
Karena kita tidak pernah bicara, menyapa, atau bertanya. Tatapanmu menjelaskan semuanya. Bahagia.
I see it clearly
Keep some distance
Spare some space
The further way is winding and inviting
Keep it hidden
By the spark in your eyes
When your gestures speak louder than a roar
Yes I see it
Yes I know it
And it is mutual
#We’ve known each other longer than a lifetime, and for one more time being separated
You can’t tell if it is she or he
You can’t see if they are many or alone
You can’t feel if they are close or far
But you know they watch
You feel the twist in your heart
You can’t ignore the whisper
You realize the loss when you deny
You know, they know
You do not get along
But you know, they know
The presence is undeniable
Do you hear it?
Feel the warmth?
Or you want to keep pretending?
Loneliness is not uncommon for us. I am sure that everyone has experience of being lonely regardless the severity of the loneliness. The question is, why do people feel lonely. Is it solely because that lonely person is alone? Or is it because the feeling of abandoned or neglected? If can take a closer look to people around us, we can see that some of them are feeling lonely even though they are with friends or family. This article is not a scientific article. It is pure my random analysis, and i hope readers can talk about this topic openly.
When do usually we feel lonely? What makes us lonely or less lonely? I am sure everybody can answer these questions because in some extent, everybody has experience with loneliness. But let us get the bottom of it.
It is very natural that we need other human around us. It is also very natural that we have the need to be needed. When either basic need is unfulfilled, it can result the loneliness or feeling of being neglected. The common problem when this feeling occurs is we cannot point out the cause of loneliness. We just feel the sudden sadness, emptiness, and most of time we (or at least me) will likely translate this as boring.
Question. Have any of you try to figure out and find the cause of your loneliness? If you have, share with me in comment section bellow. Meanwhile, bear with my rambling.
I know i am not an expert so please do not beat me scientifically, but if you want to share some scientific analysis, then you are most welcome.
Is it possible that loneliness is triggered by unpleasant experience? An experience that affect the way you perceive things around you, in which makes you feel like nobody understands. This feeling makes you feel lonely no matter how many people around you.
OK, I definitely talking non sense here. Anyway, let’s talk about it. What makes you lonely?